ourlasttry

iris 說:
things will be fine if we'r true gd friends

iris 說:
juz need time to 磨合

iris 說:
as different ppl with different character

iris 說:
i dunt mean to hurt u and i know u dunt mean to hurt me too

iris 說:
juz somehow if u realize some truth, u need to change it. not just turn and run away, then happen in new environment with new ppl.

iris 說:
though i do think things wont happen in the same way with different situation and different ppl,

iris 說:
but to prevent things happening in cycle, u should know the importance of communication, and the need of bewareness of some of the words, and attitude

iris 說:
sure i know i did many things wrong too...

iris 說:
so this is the 磨合 bth ppl

iris 說:
honestly i could just step back and ignore everything, juz dunt touch it, b4 it goes worse in this way until current situation,

iris 說:
but i want u to know, we want to treat u as true friend, then we have to communicate, we have to change ourselves to form a gd bonding and relatinoship...

iris 說:
it's not 1 side, it's interactive.

iris 說:
meanwhile, we want u to know, though u'r older and have more experience than us on many things, in friendships, we want u to know and treat each other on 對等 position and condition.

iris 說:
if either side stands higher, tat will never be balance. and the main factor is called respect.

iris 說:
and to understand each other's character, change ourselves and suit corresponding to the friendship.

iris 說:
we notice it and we think we wont juz walk away and leave u standing alone upset about ppl and about urself,

iris 說:
so we choose to talk.

iris 說:
becoz we'r still good friends

iris 說:
i know we need time.

iris 說:
but i'd like to let u know, things and relationship could change, or turn in another way, even unsolvable problems exists.

iris 說:
please take care. i dunt want u to be upset and i dunt mean to hurt u. in another way though i'm hurt by u for many tiny matters, i believe that u dunt mean to do so too.

iris 說:
so let's take time to get change and things will go on track again.

iris 說:
i'm sorry i've dark face. coz u know i dunt like to pretend.

iris 說:
i need time too.

iris 說:
i honestly wish u seriously read my words. and really think about it. i'm not only a listener when u have prob, i believe that fat gor could do that job too if i'm so, i want u to know, i want to be respected too, as a role of a friend

iris 說:
time for bed.

iris 說:
and

iris 說:
i love u

iris 說:
i truely wish the 結構性問題 could be solved, by time, and by heart.

iris 說:
thankyou.






and so
she went offline without a line